How to change a lesbian woman straight?

okay i am 15 yr.s of age and as i grew up my mother was so pretty and she had boyfriends but when i got about 11 everything change she cut her hair off and she started wearing baggy clothers she even put in a grill in her teeth she got meaner did i mention that she use to hang with woamn who could dree good but when she met a woman name kisha she has been changing big time in the past i read letters they wrote each other but shes still in denial what can i do about this? i really want her to be back normal im tired of seeing the men clothes and doorags i think this is why my behavior is so bad in school i cant deal with it anymore!!!! i want her to start back hanging with the ladies i want her to dress like a female i want a stepfather in my life not 2 stepmothers i know that she is grown and she make her own decisions but this is my mom were talking about not my siter or cuzin my MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How to change a lesbian woman straight?
It's exactly as you said. It's her decision. Not yours. Deal with it.
Reply:you cant
Reply:LOL!


you cant ! :
Reply:|ahhh sad....
Reply:pay a guy to be with her
Reply:sorry,you cant change a lesbian woman straight...


its just who she is now.


accept it babee.


shes your mom


she would most likely accept u if u were in her situation.
Reply:Try talking to her about it. Think about what SHE is going through. This may not be easy for her either. Maybe she was tired of being in bad relationships with guys? Its her life. Don't be selfish. You should only want your mother to be happy and nothing more nothing less.
Reply:..."her" choices are "her" choices... (you can't change anything... but you can "set an example" by what YOU do)
Reply:there is no way confront her about with other people. Maybe that would help. You really should't try to change someone straight its really unethical.
Reply:Lets see??? It looks like you are screwed because lesbos only like taco and giving them meat like before is too crazy. So maybe you you should be a lesbo too. Its not too bad.
Reply:Sorry to say we can't change the way people feel. I know it must be hard to see a change in your mom. Are u able to talk to your mom and let her know how these changes are making u feel? It can be embarrasing when the parents do things that are out of the ordinary..but im sure she loves u...maybe she is just having a ruff time dealing with the feelings within herself too u know?


Like I said just be honest with her and love her for who she is not who u want her to be. She does that for you right?
Reply:You can't.


Don't try. Thats mean.
Reply:Why don't you just talk to her and tell her how you feel? and really make her know how you're feeling - if she's a REAL lesbian you couldn't change her. You can't change a Lesbian or a gay man - you're born homosexual.
Reply:Um.. DUH! You have to support your mother's decisions! This is HER life too - not just yours! Stop being so selfish and become more of an advocate. Just because your mom wears clothes that you don't like doesn't mean that she is less fit to be your mom or your friend. Support her! You should be ashamed of yourself for wanting to convert her back to the person she obviously wasn't happy being!
Reply:Wel if she is a lesbian you can't change her


However tell her how you feel about her dressing and her behavior and that is upseting yout
Reply:That's right. She is your mother. Wouldn't you want her to be happy? Being a lesbian has nothing to do with how much she loves you. When you really love someone you don't concern yourself with what they wear or even who they lay with. None of that really has anything to do with you. Let her be happy.
Reply:If she's your "MOTHER", then LOVE her exactly as she is.


If she's happier being with a woman, then why wouldn't you want that for her?


Would you want her (or anyone else) to tell you who YOU should be attracted to?


OR would you prefer that she love and support whoever you choose to be with?


Treat her the way YOU would want to be treated.


Don't judge her.


LOVE HER.
Reply:Honestly? You cant change a lesbian to straight. However, you can try to talk to her about how her recent behaviour is hard on you. Sounds like there is much more to the problem for her to change so drastically and negatively.





Maybe you can also talk to a counselor at school, for your own well-being. Problems at home is one of the major reasons for young people getting into trouble and shooting down the wrong path. Just remember what you've been taught and that you are in charge of your own fate. Dont lose yourself because of her issues. You're growing mentally, emotionally and physically. You need a support system, ie. good friends, relatives/ family.





Good luck and dont give up on your mother.
Reply:Im sorry you are going through this right now. It honestly does sound tough. Your mom is your mom regardless and I hate to tell you that you cant change her. She might just be going through a faze right now. i think you should sit her down and tell her how you feel without judging her. I mean she might reall honestly not like men anymore and that is her decision. I think you need to tell her how you feel and start to think about yourself more. Just worry about you and all will be okay just tell her how you feel
Reply:hi, you can't really change your mom back into a straight woman, i'm sorry.


i know this is really tough for you, but you need to accept that this is your mom's life.


try talking to her about how you feel.





cosmic angel
Reply:First of all, you should talk to your school counsellor.. A counsellor will be a great help in this kind of situation..





Also, you might want to take of some sexy pictures of guys from the internet and put it around the house..





Talk to her old friends, they might be able to help you..





Have you got relatives? Your grandparents will be great help..





It is her life, you're right, you can't change her.. but I don't like the part when she's being mean..





So, get help from the adults around you, you might not be able to change her from being lesbian to straight, but you may be able to revive her kind and gentle personality :)





I hope it helps.. :)





And good luck..
Reply:honey, u can't hold yr breath thinking u r going to change her.


she has obviously been hurt terribly by a man.





do u hav any insight on that? may b u know him?





that's where u need 2 start. what ever this other lady is doing for her, it's making her feel better.wanted- and uninhibited.





can u ever sit down with yr mom and tell her you've noticed some changes in her and is there something she wants to share about what happened...not this relationship but what happened b 4 it started. was she abused by her dad?





that's where your answer lies, is in her heart, way down deep. mybe you could writer her a letter.make sure that u dont talk about her current relationship, she will get defensive. try and see if she will tell u how her new friends make her feel compared to her old friends, etc.





hopefully, this will help. good luck sister
Reply:My aunt is a lesbian. There is not much that u can do. Sorry. But u could always talk to her and tell her how u feel about her changing into a lesbian.
Reply:Don't try!





To do so will be a no win game since even if you succeeded there may well be resentment created for imposing yourself into her personal life.





If perhaps her changed orientation is a "choice", give her adaption and evaluation time and support -- as you would wish for yourself. In time , if she is unhappy she may choose to revert: it's her decision and responsibility to take -- no-one else's.





The changes you are seeing may be difficult for her too. Perhaps she is struggling to accept her true orientation that she has too long denied. Alternately it may be an experimentation phase she is having: adults have those too, not just kids.





Remember "Those whom it is hardest to love, often need love the most".


If we were only to love those whom it is easy to do so, of what value would that love be?
Reply:Look this is your mom that you are talking about. You cannot change her sexual preferences but she's still your mom no matter what. So what if she likes females. This doesn't change the fact that she's your mother. You don't really want her to become "straight" again. You just want her attention again because you feel that she is not paying attention to you like she used to. Make her live her life with who she wants but let her know that you need her too. I'm sure that she'll understand.
Reply:u can't change your mom's mind who she wants to be w/ I'm sorry but try talking to her and tell her that u miss the old her, that u want her back and the way she is being right now is affecting u w/ school and everything else. try talking to her u can't change her but u can try to make her realize what she is doing. sorry hun.

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