Want to be black..hate myself?

I am 13 and I hate myself. I met these 2 black friends and now I want to be just like them. They have these diamond earrings, and I bought one..then we went to the mall..and they had do rags on..I bought one too..but then..these other black kids kicked me and beat me..because I had a do rag on..now this friend put a diamond grills on his teeth..and I want one too..but I am scared of being beat up..help me!

Want to be black..hate myself?
i have a suggestion. why dont you just be yourself? you're gonna hate yourself more trying to be something you're not
Reply:i really hope this is a joke,
Reply:Watch your color, what color you wear determines life or death on the streets.
Reply:lol!





it's troll night on Y/A....
Reply:I love grillz. Be who you are. Whatever that is. Find who you are. If you find who you really are instead of trying to be something you can't be, you will love yourself. I'm not saying you can't act black, but if you can't, don't. If that's who you are then be it.
Reply:You are a very silly person. Having "grills" and "do rags" do not make a person black or white or anything. You probably got beat up because you're a fool.
Reply:buy a really big dog, and bring it with you everywhere and just go about doing what you want.
Reply:BE yourself. The reason why you got beat up is because you acting as some else.
Reply:Okay... it is alright to have friends without being just like them. And clearly, because you have friends, other people don't hate you. So stop hating yourself! (Although everyone hates themselves at 13.)





Sorry other people beat you up. That stinks. You have to protect yourself. If copying other people makes you stand out and makes you a target, then maybe you need to tone it down a little to protect yourself. So, I would not get the diamond grills if I were you.





BTW - How in the world are you affording a diamond earring and diamond grills at 13????? You better not be doing anything that would make your mama sad...
Reply:that's so crazy, everyone knows white people are the only ones that can be racist! ;D
Reply:Why can't you be proud of being white??? There is nothing wrong with it!!! Only SHEEP should follow the crowd like that!!!


Find a reason to be proud of YOURSELF!!!
Reply:Yo lil Pimp. Come back in about 10 years and ask this question again. Perhaps by then you will be a little smarter
Reply:Get the grills if you want them so bad.
Reply:where were your 2 black friends during this if they were true friends they would be doing something about this
Reply:i assume that you are not black. you should tell your black friends that you would like to be more like them and ask them if you would be a total tool for trying to do so if they say no then go ahead and get the grills otherwise its just not for you. To prevent getting your *** handed to you again i highly suggest taking some form of martial arts and if you ain't go tthe cash to do that try taking class at the Y
Reply:maybe thats why u hate yourself... cause ur getting yourself beaten up. i would too if i were u
Reply:Don't try to be something you're not. Your friends seem confident, you should try to be confident like them without being a "swagga jacka" lol(stealing their swag). Trust me, being you is cool(doesn't matter who you are).
Reply:You just need to wanna be you. Of course, during this time, you are tryin' to figure that very thing out, who are you. The you now will be a different you later. It is great you want to embrace who your friends are, although earrings for guys aren't that cool and doo rags are not meant to be worn outta the house although many black guys wear them out, but you can embrace them as your friends without trying to emulate them. I am sorry to hear you had a negative situation because of some fools who were judging you, that's tough, make an attempt to pay no mind to foolishness like that. Good luck on your journey.
Reply:Oh lil pimp, you are so naive. If you ever get the chance to see the film American Pimp, and see what the life of a real pimp is like, it'd probably scare the crap out of you.


It makes me sick to see rappers glorifying pimps when there's nothing pimp-like about the rappers.
Reply:Liking people and hanging with them is great but if you try to look like or act like other people in stead of just being your self you will earn the title " Wannabe ".


You don't want people talking like that about you, do you.


You may already be a cool little kid but you won't ever know if you start acting like everyone else now will you.


That's why those dudes picked on you because you were being something you are not.


Try any way you may find out that you like yourself.





I've seen movies and you should have too that show how stupid people can look trying to be like others.
Reply:Imitation is the strongest form of flattery but it can also offend someone because it can be seen as ridicule or copying someone without the right to do so. Hard core bikers look upon what they call weekend bikers(white collar workers who own a Harley and ride mainly on weekends) with disdain because it is copying a life style without believing in that life style with a strong enough commitment to actually follow it. Remember the movie "ROAD HOGS". If you haven't seen the movie you should. It is hillarious, and will give some insight into what I am saying.
Reply:yawn~
Reply:I wanted to fit in groups in school but i was born different, white,black,older people people my age, drunks in the family ,clergy,girls, boys, teachers everyone pick on me ,beat me,shunned me ,talked about me people or so called friends most of my life even to day as a senior citizen,I'm slightly retarded, had been verbal, mental,physical abuse, i got help i didn't want to be other people i just slowly found my own identity , I'm not a victim of life any more ,i am a survivor, don't be like other people to be excepted be you ,remember life is like a stage and i am but an actor , be proud of yourself ,you sound like a great person to me and it took courage to get to here and ask for help don't be negative be positive because you are some body an a real friend will be there thew thick %26amp;thin
Reply:LOL, sorry but what Lucky S said was funny and I agree with her. Honey, just be happy with who you are as a unique individual.
Reply:http://www.rense.com/general77/divn.htm Still wanna be Black?
Reply:u probably got beat up cause of the rag(gang related) stay white but u can love the blackness
Reply:wow, lmao
Reply:For one thing you idolizing the wrong thing. If you want to impressed by something, more than a mere fad, why not listen to some black leaders that are trying to make a change for the black comminties, not just making a clown of it...U are impressed with clowns.....
Reply:Why do you want to be like someone you're not and why are you concerned with superficial things? Be yourself man

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